Biggest trip + Murphy's Law

2 days away from the longest (in duration) and furthest (in distanc) trip of my life! 

Just for the sake of my future self, this trip I'm gonna go is to USA then Korea.. 😎

So excited even as I type this!! 

But also so overwhelmed and pissed la.. so this will be a short post!

Not surprisingly, the mama is heart not balanced la... so say wanna go over boy2's place to stay.. then just nice next wk has a public holiday right after her bday.. and also just nice their family is going away to desaru for a short trip..

And look who decided to tag along....

Haizzz... so now I have to arrange for boarding for Cashy... of cos feel heart ache la.. cos this poor furball is gonna think that we don't want her anymore... n emo all those 5 days.... write alrdy dunno want to cry or be super angry.

Don't understand why she must always Chu this kind of pattern when we go on holiday..

And to make it worse, I'm sooooo broke from everything, that having to fork out the $40/day is soooo heartache also la!

Seriously fed up la... 

That Murphy's law shit is so true la.... always shit will go wrong (when it's most urgent)...

And I always get that... arghh, praying for a smooth packing later and tmr before the flight.. and also for an awesome and smooth flight all the way to US! 🙏🏻

Then of cos smoothly all the way till we reach back on spore soils again.... 

God bless us all!!

New mummy milestone (of freedom)

OMG!!!!

The husband just brought the son for his music class alone....

Which means this is the 1st time in 22MONTHS that I'm home without the boy!!!!

Omgoodness.... If memory serves well, this has never happened before...

The milestone of me being away from the boy was reached ages ago cos I had to go to work.

But never has the situation been that I'm home and someone else brought him out!!!!

Wooooohooooooo!!!!

This new sudden (though v short-lived cos lesson is only 45mins 😅) freedom is so liberating.

But sadly there are plenty to be done before my boys get home.. Hahah...

For now...... For now, i'll just lie a little longer in bed and breathe a little deeper!

Ooommmmm arrrhhhh....

Today will be a great day! 😊

Happy 70th Birthday, Daddy

It was your bday ytd.. You are 70 this year...

Such an awesome age and blessing to get this far.. If only u could have celebrated it in the company of your family and grandchildren.... 😔

U have 5 grandchildren now, you know...

3 of whom have some memories of you....

I think like them, we all miss you from time to time.

Many times I wonder what things would be like if u were still with us... Would Wp n I even have gotten married? What will you say to Don if u get to see him now..

The other day I had a mini ridiculous squabble with mummy in the kitchen... Then I suddenly wondered whether given your current mental state, would such squabbles be x2 or would you be on a whole other level of crazy compared to mama....

Sighx..... Some days it hurts quite badly u know...

I somehow feel like we gave up too quickly... I......

It doesn't matter now anymore isn't it...

Oh wow, typing this post is hurting more than i expected ...

Happy birthday daddy! I miss you.......

You're far away but I wanna wish you good health and happiness... After all that's all that really matters ya.... 😘