Friday, March 01, 2019

importance of good family support

Times like this, I feel that a strong family support is sooooo very important!


Like all may not be staying together in 1 house, but the knowledge that ure able to depend on someone in the family is really priceless!


It’s touching to see the number of people who are willing to offer their help over the last few days when we needed extra hands and eyes to watch don while I was at the hospital for observation.


How wp’s folks and sis offered time n even money to assist us....


And like how now when it looks like I need absolute bed rest, I know there are ppl like wp’s side and Mel’s side to outsource don to...

AND I know he shld be well entertained!


Just need to settle some stuff before meimei comes then I will repay this time-loss debt to my poor boy...


He has been soooo good these last few days... self entertaining and basically letting me rest if I need..

(As long as he doesn’t see me.....)


But I feel bad cos mummy just lets him play on his own the whole time and don’t bother to interact much... which if he gets bored after awhile, he’ll start to whine n go koo-Koo....

And I dislike how she snaps at him at times too.. like we do it cos we’re sooo exhausted so temper is short.

She just does it because she can! 😡


Haizz... Guess the only other person who can keep him occupied is shaf... but she’s so busy with work too... so that’s one person lesser to outsource to..


But seriously as I lie here in bed typing this, I’m just fearful that I’ll suddenly seizure again or something when no one is around or at the most inconvenient time!

Because the way my heart beats at times, I’m worried that I’ll stroke out or get a heart attack man!


Please let this birth story of meimei be a plain boring one.......

Let me just wait out the full 37wks then deliver nicely as planned!


Please please please ok?