Responsibility

I’ve come to realise that I can be a very naggy person and at times what I want to say doesn’t really come out right..

So I’m going to say what I wanna say here cos I know ure reading and also cos in here, I can still backspace and erase but in verbal words, say wrong means wrong le... 😅

What I wanna say is..............

I don’t believe that in OUR household, the responsibility of bringing home the $$$ should be solely on you (male)... neither do I believe that the sole responsibility of bringing up the child(ren) should be all on me (female)....

Unlike a traditional household, we’re both in the same industry which is sales based. So to put all that stress on you would be mean on my part.

And if both are capable and physically + mentally able, I feel that both of us have the responsibility to earn well to bring up our family and secure our retirement.

Yes, we have been going through tough times... but once again I believe as long as we have our direction right, we’ll get through this together and celebrate success together!

We’re just lazy most times and still yet to find a breakthrough of how to make this business self-sustainable.. and I feel that’s where the challenge is.

Really need to sit down one day to brainstorm together......

So yes, I was kinda affected when E said that as the man of the family, u should work harder blah blah blah........ my heart immediately went noooooooo....

But I guess not many can understand my logic.

Having money is important! Heck, I have learnt how awful the lack of money is! So yes, we need to work hard.

But not at the expense that ure the one working all the time and not spending that quality moments with your kid.

Of cos tts what most other families would do. Husband works; Wife takes care of the kids... end of the day, there’s no common topic between the 2... the focus is apart though the intention is for the good of the family.

Well, I can’t say this thinking of mine is right. And that we’re doing ourselves any good being neither here nor there...

Because very often, esp recently when cash is low... I can’t help but wonder if I should ask u to just go hands off from the care-giving work for don and focus everything on work.

Deep inside I know I won’t be able to take it.. but human adapt fast right? 😔

Hahah but I also know ure lazy.. and would rather just take care of the boy cos u think that it’s the easier of the two! 

Anyway I pray to the Almighty for a smoother path for the both of us. May our financial situation turn around and to let us have the abundance of wealth! Oh God, please hear my prayer and let things get better... Amen...